ALONE AGAIN, UNNATURALLY

When I was in my teens and 20′s, I travelled alone.  My friends all thought me brave, intrepid; but I just thought of it as easy.  When you are a party of one, there is no negotiating, no compromise.  I went where I wanted to go, when I wanted to go and how I wanted to get there.  There was no emotional baggage to deal with other than my own (and I was used to carrying that).

Then, in my early 30′s, I met Marty who I would eventually marry.  Our first trip was a cruise; totally not my style and I get sea sick, but it was a holiday gift so who was I to refuse.  By the end of the week I was in such desperate need of space that I remember sitting separately at the airport while waiting for our flight.  I was grateful at that moment that I lived in Washington, DC while he lived in Cincinnati, OH – we would be going home to different places! 

But that was over 20 years ago.  Now we travel every where together.  And since 1998, we have traveled as a family with two daughters in tow; until now.  Now I am in Antigua, Guatemala for 19 days by myself.  I came down as a get-a-way.  An oportunity to drop my familial obligations and be responsible only for me.  And to study Spanish.   Here I am able to experience once again the freedom of being on my own: to do what I want to do, when I want to do it, without compromise or sacrifice. 

But now it’s different.  This time I have left loved ones at home and I miss them.  This time I am much older, without the energy and drive to push myself to do things that in the company of others I might be more inclined to do.  And this time I am more aware of the loneliness that comes with traveling on your own since I have now had the opportunity of traveling with others.

So, today is day two.  I am off to go study Spanish for six hours and then explore Antigua for a little bit.  And, I guess, as I explore Antigua and Guatemala for the next 17 days, I will be exploring myself and rediscover who I am in the absence of those I love.

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LIFE IN 2012

The New Year is just around the corner.  This is often the time when people look back on the year just lived and make resolutions for how they will live in the new year differently.  While there’s typically not a shortage of ideas out there on how to live a better life, I didn’t want this period of self reflection to go by without adding in my two cents.  So if you’re a little short on time this holiday season, please feel free to use any or all of my ideas for making 2012 a stellar year.

1.  Make time for you.  There’s a reason the airline industry tells you to put your oxygen mask on before tending to anyone else.

2.  Play more and work less.  No one dies wishing they had spent more hours working.

3.  Don’t just do something, sit there.  Create some quiet/meditative time for yourself.  You might be surprised how much better you feel and how much clearer life becomes.

4.  Get at least 7 hours of sleep a night.  Your body needs to recuperate from the day.

5.  Walk or exercise at least 20 minutes per day.  Don’t say you don’t have time, make the time. (see #1)

6.  Drink plenty of water.

7.  Eat more plants and less food manufactured in plants.

8.  Spend more time with family and friends.

9.  Read more good books; life is too short to read the bad ones.

10. Don’t take yourself or life too seriously.

11. Travel to someplace you’ve never been before.

12. Stop holding grudges – they just add ugly pounds to your soul.

13. Argue less. Would you rather be right or happy?

14. Accumulate more memories and less stuff.

15. Laugh.  People who laugh more live longer.

16. Live life to it’s fullest; this is not a dress rehearsal.

17. Dream more, even when you are awake.

18. Don’t spend time hating, envying, or dwelling on negative thoughts.  They just use up the time you could be loving and happy.

19. Perform random acts of kindness.

20. Don’t compare your life to others.  You have no idea what their journey is all about.

21. Keep in mind that no one can make you feel inferior without your permission.

22. Be the change you want to see in the world.

23. Stand up for what is right, even if you’re standing alone.

24. Live each day as if it’s your last; one day it will be.

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TRAVEL IN THE COMPUTER AGE

One of the biggest debates prior to leaving for our one year RTW was whether or not to take a laptop computer.  Both my husband and I were undecided; Marty leaning towards having one, while I was inclined the other way.  My list of concerns:  It was one more thing to keep up with, it will get ripped off, people will spend too much time on it.  I also feared we would become so dependent on it that if we couldn’t use it (no Internet service, no electricity, it was lost or stolen) we would be lost.  OK, I am going to put it in print, I WAS WRONG!  Taking a computer was the best thing we did.  Everything would have been so much more challenging without it!

We bought a Dell 11.3″ laptop with an external CD drive and used it for checking and sending emails, keeping a blog, loading pictures, uploading pictures online, travel research, educational research, schooling, watching movies, phone calls, paying bills, computer games…We bought a used one so that if it was lost or stolen, we wouldn’t be out an expensive piece of equipment, but the reality is, technology is so inexpensive these days, even a new one wouldn’t set you back too much.

If you don’t carry a computer, you will have to rent a computer (going to Internet cafes) for all your computing needs.  When you think about this option, consider how many Internet cafes you have in your neighborhood?  None?  How many do you have in your city?  Not too many?  None at all?  The more affluent a country’s population, the more people own computers, the less need for Internet cafes.  There are exceptions to this.  Some well touristed areas have Internet sites despite the country’s favorable economic circumstances.  Others will have few.  Besides availability, there are other issues to consider:  How much per hour will you spend?  What are the hours of operation?  How long will you wait for a computer?  How convenient is the location?  What type of speed will you have and how long will it take you to do something?

While some of these issues don’t disappear when you have your own computer (you still need a signal etc.), the increased flexibility of having your own can’t be ignored.  Still, that freedom can come at a cost.  Our hard drive crashed in Poland and had to be replaced.  Later it needed work in New Zealand.  Each event required us to find someone who could fix it.  Marty and I were not the most computer literate and it would have been helpful to know more about the equipment we were carrying.  Learn as much as you can about your computer so you are not at the mercy of others when problems occur.  Be prepared for a crash.  Carry your operating system disk and any other program you must have.  If there is a problem, you will be able to restore your computer to its previous state.

Think about how you will want to use your computer and make sure you have all the peripherals needed for those tasks.  Planning on using Skype?  You will need a head set and maybe a camera.  Uploading pictures?  You’ll want a transfer cable for your camera.  Other items that are useful or necessary:  an extra battery, electric cord with worldwide adaptors, MP3 player charger attachment and flash drives.

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A PICTURE IS WORTH 1000 WORDS – BUT ONLY IF YOU HAVE THEM

Depending on what you’re doing, a 2-3 week vacation can produce a hell of a lot of pictures.  So if you’re thinking about long-term travel, multiply that times seven for a three month trip, thirteen for a six month trip or yes, twenty-six for a full year.  We are now talking about a boat load of pictures.  Pictures that will serve as the lasting memory of your possibly once in a lifetime adventure.  Pictures that you will want to make sure return home with you!

As we planned our one year trip, what to do with the multitude of pictures we were going to accumulate was a huge concern.  While there were plenty of storage options available, our concern was risk of loss:  pictures stored on a camera or computer, lost, stolen or malfunctioning; pictures burned onto CDs or stored on extra photo cards, mailed home but never received.  We did not want to lose our pictures!  We figured the best way to safeguard our photos was to upload them to a website where they could be stored away from our physical possessions which were always at risk.

Uploading pictures to an online storage site was time consuming, but worth it. While traveling, we heard sad stories of pictures lost – sometimes just a day’s worth but other times a lot more. We have all our pictures due to our online storage site and our diligence in executing the rules we set up for ourselves. Each night we uploaded pictures from our camera to our computer. We then uploaded certain photos to KodakGallery.com, our chosen online storage site. Depending on the Internet speed, this upload could go pretty quickly or take half the night. Our policy was to not delete pictures from our camera until the pictures were safely uploaded to Kodak. This way, our photos were stored in two locations at any given time, the camera and the computer. Once safely online, we deleted them from the camera but continued to leave them on the computer. Even when our hard drive crashed in Poland, we didn’t lose any of our 12,000+ pictures because of these safety measures.

Online storage sites are a great way to share your pictures with those at home. On KodakGallery.com, we made a “Trip Group” of friends, and in one action, we sent a photo album out to 50+ people. Advanced research as to which service to use is worth your time. We had been using KodakGallery.com for years, so it seemed a natural choice. In the past, we typically printed pictures for photo albums so we didn’t take into consideration that we would be using Kodak differently this time around. After uploading, we would painstakingly edit our pictures and then title each one so we knew what and where it was. This was an arduous task, but we justified it telling ourselves there was no way we would remember everything after a year. We also knew it would be easier to deal with pictures one album at a time than to come home to over 7600 pictures (the number we sent to Kodak). A bonus to titling the photos was that those at home looking at the pictures would know what they were looking at. Now at home, we’ve discovered that the titles we so painstakingly added do not transfer onto any medium at all. Hours upon hours of work for naught. Had we done more homework, we would have gone with another storage site that could have preserved our titles.

Extensive pre-trip research isn’t foolproof. It can only provide you with the best possible solution at the time you are making your decision. This data may not even last the full length of your trip. While on the road, Kodak changed their policy regarding the storage of pictures. When we left, storage was free of charge. They then decided to start charging for their storage if you weren’t actively making purchases (which of course, we weren’t).

We didn’t mind paying the fee, but it was all a bit confusing how the plan was being implemented and we spent a lot of time sorting out the details during online chats with Kodak. Kodak also changed their “sharing” format while we were on our trip to a smaller photo frame which we didn’t like. Regardless of how much research and preparation you do, there is no guarantee that everything is going to work out the way you want. Flexibility was one of those “life lessons” we were challenged with regularly.

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FEWER SURPRISES TO TRAVEL-NOT ALWAYS A GOOD THING

I’m a foodie from way back.  I love going to new restaurants for culinary exploration.  In the past, I would hear of a new place, make a reservation for an appropriate time and date and then wait for the excitement to build.   On the day of my reservation, tension would increase.  I couldn’t wait to see the decor and experience the ambiance.  I couldn’t wait to have the menu placed in my hands and then gaze at the offerings, surprised and delighted by the choices I had to pick from.  And, of course, I couldn’t wait to taste the food that I was hoping would be wonderful.

That was all before the Internet came along.  Now when I hear about a new restaurant, I, of course, Google it.  I peruse their website, check out the pictures of the interior, read their menu and then scour the Internet for both critic and patron reviews.  If after all of that I decide I still want to go, I make a reservation.  I arrive to a restaurant which I’ve already seen before in pictures and whose menu I’ve already read in a PDF file.  While it’s true that the specials will be heard for the first time, nothing else is unknown.  With the surprise element gone, the food better be pretty spectacular since there is no longer any residual excitement that comes from the anticipation of the unknown.

I find this true of travel today as well.  I’m currently planning a trip to Antigua, Guatemala to study Spanish.  I have arranged for a homestay through my foreign language school so I really have no idea where I’ll be staying for the three weeks I’ll be there.  I’m anticipating functional in terms of my room and really looking to the family/cultural experience to be the highlight.  But, on the weekends, I hope to do some traveling around.  This past weekend I was checking out the Lake Atitlan area where I’m hoping to have a weekend getaway while in Antigua.  It’s beautiful.  And I know that because I’ve seen the pictures.  I’m sure the pictures don’t do it justice but just the same, I do have a pretty good idea of what to expect.  I was also looking at accommodations.  Again, in the past, accommodations were a blurb in a guidebook that either hooked you in or left you feeling unmoved.  If you were staying someplace that was described as “special,” you didn’t have any idea of how “special” until you got there.  Now as I read about these wonderful guest houses and hotels, I have detailed pictures to help me make my decision.  It it helpful? Yes.  Does it take some of the guesswork out of my decision? Yes.  Does it lessen the surprise when I walk through the door for the first time, YES!  And for me, that is a huge loss!

Having planned a one year RTW I will freely admit that I couldn’t imagine having done it without the Internet.  I used the web to find apartments, guest houses, public transportation information, ferry schedules, bus schedules, book flights…In some cases, like transportation schedules, the information only served to make life easier.  In other cases, having those pictures of apartments kept me from booking a place that would have been one of those unwanted surprises.  Yet other times, the information available did take some of the excitement and joy away from the experience. 

Is there any turning back?  Is it possible to go to a new restaurant without first checking out its menu online?  Would we consider booking an accommodation without looking at its photos?  In most cases, I don’t think so.  But if not, how do we bring back the surprise element to our travels?

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AN AMERICAN DREAM FAIRY TALE

Once upon a time there was a girl named Goldie lisa.  Her hair was dark and curly so know one really knows why she was named Goldie lisa, but that’s really not germain to the story.  Goldie lisa lived with her high school educated parents and her two sisters.  They shared a middle class home in a suburban neighborhood in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, where they had mostly everything they needed, if not everything they wanted.  Goldie lisa was an independent sort so at the age of 17 she set out to discover The American Dream.

Her first stop was to visit Uncle Sam, the portrait of everything American.  Here she discovered that The American Dream was Life, Liberty and The Pursuit of Happiness.  While this was certainly eloquent, it was a little too esoteric for Goldie lisa.  The whole thing sounded a little too “high brow” and lofty.  Clearly this was not going to be a good fit so Goldie lisa moved on.

Goldie lisa’s parents tried to explain to her that the only way to The American Dream was to go to college.  Since neither of Goldie lisa’s parents had gone to college, they spoke with some authority knowing their own shortfalls for reaching The American Dream.  So Goldie lisa set off for college.

Once at college, Goldie lisa applied herself so that she would achieve great things.  “But what are those great things I’m supposed to be achieving?” Goldie lisa asked herself.  She knew she was supposed to be working toward The American Dream, but it still wasn’t really clear to her what exactly The American Dream was.  Surrounded by bright and ambitious students, the media, the government and the words of her parents, Goldie lisa soon began to grasp what The American Dream was.  It was to get a college degree, so that you could get a good job, make lots of money, get married, buy your own home, have 2.5 children, a pet and live a life with all your material needs fulfilled.  And for two years at college, Goldie lisa pursued this path as if its fit was “just right.”

But toward the end of two years at college, Goldie lisa was feeling restless.  The only thing she discovered that was interesting in school was cultural anthropology and clearly she could never live The American Dream with that as a major.  She briefly looked into the Peace Corps with no support from anyone.  The only options that seemed to be acceptable to those around her was to continue her education or to leave and make money.  Under the circumstances, making money rather than spending money on an education that seemed to be leading no where seemed the better option.

For a year Goldie lisa worked as a receptionist living at home with her parents.  She made little money and had clearly lost her way toward The American Dream.  But, she was happy.  She worked during the day but at night she played and played with all her friends.  On the weekends she also played and played with all her friends.  Other than an old car, she had few material possessions.  She had few financial obligations.  She had few responsibilities.  For the first time in her life, Goldie lisa felt the freedom of having very few of life’s burdens and it felt light and wonderful.  And while she started to get a sense that maybe The American Dream wasn’t all it was cracked up to be, she realized she was deeply caught in the propaganda of the times.  Knowing that a receptionist job by day and play by night was not going to bring her closer to ”The Dream”, after a year sabbatical, Goldie lisa went back to college.

With education secured, next came a career.  And with money in the bank (and in the stock market), homeownership was just around the corner. Then, of course,  love, marriage and the baby carriage just down the road.  Minus the pet, Goldie lisa finally had it all:  The American Dream.  So why wasn’t she content?  “There must be more to it than this” Goldie lisa thought.

Fast forward to June 2008.  That’s when Goldie lisa and her family left for a one year trip around the world.  They left behind their home, cars, material possessions, jobs, careers, kids’ school and all the responsibilities that went with all of them.  The trip was as much about what they were leaving behind as what they were going to.  Other than the marriage and the 2.5 kids (well, really only 2), The American Dream got left behind.  What was waiting for them was a world to explore, adventure, new cultures, new ways of looking at things and new people to meet.  And one night, maybe 2-3 months into the trip, Goldie lisa climbed into her bed and thought “now this really is just right.”

Sometimes it takes leaving America to discover The American Dream, because The American Dream is what lies inside your heart, not what others have told you it should be.  Here is what Goldie lisa discovered:

It’s the people you meet and the relationships you form with them that are what life is all about. 
That less is more and once you rid yourself of your material possessions, you feel lighter, freer and less burdened than ever before.
Doing what you love regardless of how much money you make is more important than making a lot of money and being unhappy doing what you’re doing.
Life is easier when you are free from the the responsibilities associated with too many choices, too much information, too much technology and too many material possessions.
That we each need to redefine The American Dream independent of the cultural pressures we experience and that for me, The American Dream is surrounding yourself with loving friends and family and doing what brings you joy.

Read what others are saying about The American Dream:

What is the American Dream? 
The Global American Dream
The American Dream
Redefining an American Dream
Erosion of the American Dream
The Illusion of the American Dream  
Living the Australian Dream  
Trapped in the American Dream
Livin’ the not-so-American Dream 
Bye Bye Miss American Dream
The Real American Dream
Good Morning, America, Let’s Occupy Wall Street!
To dream a little dream of … travel
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LIVING WITH LESS

4 Travelers & Their Luggage - That's it for a year!

Prior to our leaving for our one year around the world adventure, people would often ask, “How do you pack for a whole year?”The answer is, “The same way you pack for a week, only a little less and a lot more carefully.”We each had a 28″ rolling duffel bag and a day pack.  If it didn’t fit into either of those bags, it didn’t go with us.  Needless to say, we didn’t have a huge amount of stuff for a year.

1 Laptop - It's All the Technology We Had

It’s not only clothing and personal possessions we did without.  We didn’t have a phone or an answering machine, not even a cell phone!  We didn’t have mail, a door bell or anyway for anyone to get hold of us other than email.  There was no car sitting in front of our accommodation we could jump into, to drive to where ever we wanted to go.

And most of the time we didn’t have access to many of the things that are so readily available to us here in the US:  English Language books, fruits and vegetables that are out of season, international foods, a choice of 10 different products, be it toothpaste, toilet paper or sun screen.

Let’s face it, when you choose long-term travel as a way a life, you accept its natural consequence of living with less.  How is it?  Great!  Not only is living with less in order to travel the world a more than worthwhile trade off, you discover that life is lighter, freer and easier when you live with less.

Did I ever get sick of wearing the same things over and over again?  No, not really.  Strangely, instead of feeling tired of the same outfits, I enjoyed the simplicity of it all.  If it was cool out, I wore one of three pairs of pants.  If it was hot, one of three pairs of shorts.  Shoes?  “Do I need open toed or closed toed shoes today?”Often the outfit that went on that morning was the one hanging over the chair that came off the night before; how much easier can life get.

Life with less technology was also freeing.  Now back at home, I come into my house and check my answering machine, my mailbox, my email and my cell phone if I didn’t have it with me.  While traveling, I didn’t have to keep up with all of that.  I wasn’t at some one’s beck and call, which is what life sometimes feels like.  I moved at my own pace with less regard for others than what is required at home.

OK - Some Times We Did Have Choices!

As for the lack of choice available on the road, you quickly discover that it’s not restrictive but freeing.  In America we have “Freedom of Choice.”But what the advertising industry calls freedom of choice, I have come to think of as a bombardment of choice.  When I needed to buy toilet paper on the road, I went into the market and bought one of several brands of toilet paper.  I didn’t feel deprived that I didn’t have 75 options to choose from: one ply or two, scented or unscented, single roll, double roll or jumbo roll, four pack, eight pack, sixteen pack or the family pack…Actually, I felt grateful I could just go into a store and buy toilet paper without really having to think too much about it.  Fewer choices amounted to less work, less responsibility and fewer decisions; who couldn’t learn to love that?

I guess in some ways, those who travel, often live with less before they ever hit the road.  Unless you are wealthy, typically your means to travel come from living with less.  We all make choices as to how we spend the limited amount of money we have.  Some choose clothing and jewelery; others electronics.  Still others, like to have newer cars to drive.  When travel is your passion, you often live with less in order to afford the thing that makes your life worth living – Travel.

Check out these other bloggers who have written on the same topic:

http://worldschooladventures.com/2011/09/06/getting-rid-of-stuff/

http://familyonbikes.org/blog/2011/09/enjoying-life-with-less/

http://breakoutofbushwick.org/?p=610

http://familytravelbucketlist.com/living-with-less-and-5-kids

http://www.carriedonthewind.com/2011/09/living-with-less.html

http://ourtravellifestyle.com/2011/09/06/living-with-less-does-having-all-our-gear-again-really-make-us-happier

http://www.livinontheroad.com.au/blog/four-kids-almost-no-toys.html

http://www.thedropoutdiaries.com/2011/09/anchors-aweigh/

http://www.discovershareinspire.com/2011/09/1-truck-2-continents-7-people-how-we-organize-our-321-things

http://www.newlifeontheroad.com/living-with-less-stuff/

http://brandonpearce.com/2011/09/dont-use-it-dont-keep-it/

http://www.gotpassport.org/2011/01/03/carlin-had-a-point-less-is-more-in-2010/

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THINKING ABOUT RENTING? ASK QUESTIONS!

Over the course of our one year around the world trip, we rented apartments for eight out of the twelve months we traveled.  We loved our apartments and vacation rentals are a convenient and economical way to travel (see:  http://www.aroundtheworldineasyways.com/?p=1).  But choosing wisely with respect to rental accomodations is particularly important; it is much easier to walk away from an inappropriate hotel room than it is an apartment that you booked and payed for in advance.  The key is to ask questions, lots of questions, in order to avoid unwanted surprises. 

We thought we were pretty thorough when reviewing accommodations, but over the course of the year, we had our share of surprises. The worst, and most stressful, was when we arrived at our apartment in Krakow, Poland. It was late, about 11:30 PM. The owners were generous enough to meet us there even at this late hour. The second bedroom, and it’s bed, were smaller than anticipated, so Siena and Avocet were disappointed. But we figured one could sleep on the sofa bed until next week when my mother was going to arrive. My mother! Oh my God! The apartment was a six story walk up with no lift and my mother, who is 78 years old, with arthritis and COPD, was coming to visit with us and STAY with us for a week! She could barely make it up one flight of stairs let alone six. Despite the fact that the apartment had a very informative web site and I had a good correspondence with its owner in English, I never asked and he never mentioned that the apartment was on the sixth floor of a building with no elevator. I didn’t sleep at all that night trying to figure out what we were going to do. The next morning I started searching on line for a new apartment. I also sent an email to the owner who owned other rental units in Krakow. Fortunately, the day before my mother’s arrival, we moved into another rental apartment owned by our landlord’s mother. This second apartment, in fact, was my second choice of apartments in Krakow. In the end everything worked out fine. But all of this stress, aggravation, and upheaval could have been prevented by asking just one question “What floor is the apartment on and is there an elevator?”

So, here is my list of questions to begin with.  As you explore your options, you may find you have more questions to add to this list:

 
1. Where is the unit located? How far from town, public transportation, supermarkets, restaurants, sites of interest, etc.? Ask for distance in miles/kilometers and not minutes.

2. How many bedrooms does the unit have? (This is different from how many rooms it has) How many does it sleep? How big is each bed?

3. What appliances does the kitchen have? Stove (hob), oven, refrigerator, coffee maker, toaster, etc.4. How big is the unit? Most will quote in square meters. One square meter = 10.76 square feet.

5. Does it come with bed linens, towels, kitchen supplies?

6. What other amenities does it have? Washing machine? TV? DVD player? etc.

7. Does it have an Internet connection? Is it cable or wireless? Does it have a computer?

8. What floor is the unit on? If it is a high floor, is there a lift (elevator) or is it a walk up?

9. What are the arrival and departure arrangements?

10. How much is the unit renting for per week? Does this include everything? Taxes? Cleaning? Other fees?

11. Does the rental rate include any cleanings during your stay?

12. Will they offer a discount for a longer term stay?

13. What type of payment will they accept? Cash, check, credit card.

14. Is a deposit necessary? How will the deposit need to be made?

15. Is a security deposit required? When does it have to be made and when and how will you get it back?

16. Do they have any references?

If this seems like a long list, you’re right, it is. But it is worth while to ask each and every one of these questions (and more if you have something to add to the list). Nobody likes surprises and if you don’t ask the questions, you WILL get surprises. 
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TO INSURE OR NOT INSURE, THAT IS THE QUESTION

Overseas medical insurance is totally unnecessary, except when it isn’t.  If you bought it and never used it then you wasted your money right?  But what about the person who bought it and actually used it?  Well, they got good value for their money!  So, are you going to use it or not?

The nature of any insurance is that you are protecting yourself from a possible risk:  risk of fire, theft, car accident, medical crisis…Many aspects of life incur a risk that we don’t insure:  crossing the street, riding our bike, sending our children off to college.  Overall, we calculate a risk in terms of its probability of occurring as well as its potential financial impact on our lives and then decide which risks to insure and which to leave uninsured.

Before you even think about purchasing travel insurance, investigate if you already have coverage.  Does the health plan you currently have cover you while you are away on a trip?  If so, no additional medical coverage is necessary.  If not, or if you will be gone longer than your plan allows, then you need to do some serious thinking.  Am I willing to take the financial risk of becoming sick and having to pay for everything out of pocket?  While health care tends to be cheaper everywhere outside the US, the need for serious health care can add up regardless of what country you become sick in.  In addition, what if you don’t want to be sick in another country?  What if a serious illness occurs and you need to be evacuated for proper treatment?  If you think health care is expensive, check out the rates for medical evacuation; it’s not pretty.  On the other hand, if you check out the rates for overseas medical insurance, you will see that the cost is not as much as you might think and therefore may well be worth your while.

Overseas medical insurance or an international policy is just that – international.  It will cover you while you are in another country but it will not cover you in the US (not sure how policies work when issued to citizens of other countries).  Therefore you need to make sure that you are still insured “back home.” If you are leaving for a vacation or a short trip, this probably isn’t an issue to be concerned with.  You were planning on coming back home so you hadn’t even thought of disposing of your existing coverage.  On the other hand, if you are swapping your current lifestyle for a nomadic one for a period of time, terminating your current coverage is not only possible but even probable.  We left the country for a year and in order to do so quit our jobs.  No job, no health insurance.  At first we were fine with the idea since we had obtained an international policy.  But then we got to thinking…If we had a serious illness or injury and wanted to be transferred back home for treatment, we would have no coverage.  Our international policy would cover the evacuation (if medically required) but not for any treatment back in the US.  We had to obtain a domestic policy (we chose a high deductible plan) on the off chance that this could happen.  Unlike the international policy, the domestic policy was expensive so you’ll have to weigh the risks/rewards of owning the extra policy.

International medical policies often come with some additional bells and whistles that can add a lot of cost to your polic, namely trip cancellation/trip interuption insurance.  With trip cancellation insurance, should you have to cancel your trip prior to your departure for covered reasons, you will receive reimbursement for the cost of your trip.  This works well for organized tours, cruises or other pre-paid trips.  It’s not so easy with independent travel where most of your expenses occur on a day to day basis.  This type of coverage is a little pricey so you might want to evaluate the likelihood of the need to cancel a trip:  chronic or terminal illness; a dying family member.  If the risk of cancelling the trip is low, you might want to forgo this coverage.  We chose to bypass this coverage and eat our pre-paid costs if necessary.

Trip interuption on the other hand kicks in after the trip has already begun.  Should your trip have to terminate due to covered reasons (medical or death), you will be compensated for the unused portion of your trip.  This type of coverage is not as expensive as trip cancellation and may even be included in the medical coverage you purchase (as was the case with our policy).

In the end, our family of four left the country for one full year with an international medical policy that included trip interruption, but not trip cancellation, as well as a very high deductible domestic policy.  The cost for the international policy was $2000 for the four of us.  The cost for the domestic policy was $3434 for the four of us.  We didn’t use a cent from either policy!  We don’t feel it was money wasted but instead feel grateful for our health and the security we had over the course of the year.  It doesn’t always work that way however.  My parents had a European River Cruise booked to the tune of $6300 each when my father was diagnosed with lung cancer.  They had to cancel the trip and since they had trip cancellation coverage, received a full refund for the trip they were never able to take.  Two years after my father’s death, my mother took a trip to China.  She fell and hit her head and ended up in the hospital for a week.  Since she had international medical, trip cancellation and trip interruption insurance, she had all of her medical expenses paid for and received reimbursement for the unused portion of her trip.  That’s why they call it insurance.

Evaluate your circumstances, determine which risks you want to insure versus those you want to retain and then do your homework to find coverage that will insure only those risks that you want to transfer.  If you plan properly, you will feel good about your decision regardless of the outcome.

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TURNING OUR TRAVEL DREAM INTO A REALITY

When we told family and friends that we were taking a year

1st Stop, Haarlem, The Netherlands, With our Bikes

off to travel the world, they thought we were crazy.  Who takes a year off to travel?  I guess if we were retired with grown children and independently wealthy, they might have looked at us differently.  But no, we are not retired and we have elementary school age twin daughters and we are definitely not rich.  So what ever made us think of such a bizarre idea, and more importantly, what ever made us think that we could pull it off?

Flight of The Gibbon; Chiang Mai, Thailand

I grew up in a family that traveled, not extensive world travel, but we always took a three week family vacation in the summer.  It was the old fashioned, squeeze the family into the station wagon type of trip where you drove thousands of miles and saw the sights of our beautiful country.  At age nine, my parents took my older sister and me to Europe for three weeks.  I thought it was just way too cool.  Then, as I got older, I took a number of trips on my own.  I wish I had taken more but I suffered from the same problem that many others suffer from:  I either had time but no money or money but no time.  And being the practical, rational American that I am, I couldn’t seem to work through that dilemma.  During the early days of my career, I had a client who decided that he, his wife and their nine year old daughter were going to take a year off to sail.  What a marvelous adventurous idea, I thought.  Some day, I too would like to take a year off to travel.

On top of Pichincha Volcano - Quito, Ecuador

In 1990 I met Marty, who eventually became my husband.  I told him of my desire to travel for a year and he either liked the idea or thought I was crazy and would never attempt to do such a thing.  We married in 1992 and then life came at us fast.  The next think I knew, we had a house, a mortgage and twin girls born in 1998.  The idea of a year off to travel seemed like a distant memory and hardly something that would ever happen.

But kids grow, start school and become a little more independent.  I glimpsed a resurrection of my old life and in crept that crazy old one year off idea.  But now we have two young children!  You know, the good thing about kids is that they are not nailed to the floor; they are very portable.  And if a year of travel would be exciting and enlightening for us, just think what it would be like for our daughters with their whole lives ahead of them!

Avocet and Siena at a Spice Farm - Zanzibar, Tanzania

In December, 2005, I said to Marty, “If we are ever going to take this trip, we better start planning it now!  These kinds of things don’t just happen; you make them happen.  If we don’t do this now, we probably never will.”  We set a target departure date for June 2008.  The girls would be nine, a perfect age in our minds.  That gave us 2 1/2 years to put it all together.  We knew that a lot could happen during that time period that might ultimately prevent us from taking this trip, but I also knew that if we didn’t move forward, then our lack of initiative would prevent it from occurring.  In the end, we would have no one to blame but ourselves.

Marty and lisa in Zakopane, Poland

Marty and I are savers by nature always tucking money away for that proverbial “rainy day.”  We also live a simple lifestyle.  We drive well maintained older cars, shop thrift shops or sales for our clothes and reuse and recycle whenever possible.  Just like everyone else, we spend money on what’s important to us – in our case ,travel.  We knew this wouldn’t be an inexpensive adventure, but on the other hand, you can live more cheaply on the road than you can at home and we used that fact to our advantage.

In the end, it’s Nike who got us where we needed to go; the JUST DO IT motto works great for making dreams come true.  Typically in life it’s not the things we do that we regret, it’s the ones  we don’t do and we didn’t want to face this regret further down the road.  We decided not to wait for the written invitation to go out and experience life.

One Year, 32,000 Miles Later

Dreams really do come true and Marty and I have the rest of our lives to enjoy the fact that we turned our dream into a reality.  And what a wonderful gift we have given to our children; now they too know that if they dream it, they can make it happen.

Other traveling families tell how they turned their travel dream into a reality:

http://www.livinontheroad.com.au/faq/why-and-how-we-came-to-be-a-travelling-family.html

http://familyonbikes.org/blog/2011/04/how-to-afford-long-term-family-travel/

http://breakoutofbushwick.org/?p=234

http://worldschooladventures.com/2011/08/01/decide-commit/

http://www.raisingmiro.com/2011/08/01/inspired-dreams-inspiring-travel

http://www.thedropoutdiaries.com/2011/08/funding-a-dropout/

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